If you or your family are navigating an active diagnosis or loss, call (206) 617‑1199. For emotional crisis, call or text 988 anytime.

Bainbridge Death Support

Not the reaper.

I make records of people’s lives.

Tech support toward death

Let’s open it while you’re still here.

The stories and the paperwork: the things that hold a family together after you’re gone.

Obituaries

Help with the writing, or a place to write it yourselves.

Most families have never written an obituary, and it usually needs to be done within a day or two. There are two ways I can help.

With Me, from $349

Send me whatever you have, even if it's nothing yet. I check every name, date and relationship, write or edit alongside you, and handle the newspaper submission, fees and word limits included.

On Your Own, with Obituate

One person holds the pen while relatives check every name, date and relationship against the marked proof. Writing, checking and newspaper-ready text are free, and stay in your browser. A permanent archive and document Kit is $149 once, waived for anyone who asks.

Heirlooms, made by hand.

Every life is a big story, and the people in these pieces trusted me with theirs. So you won’t see their faces or names here, only the shape of the work. It starts as a conversation, not an interview, and what comes out of it can be a film, a bound book, letterpress, or a place online.

Documentary Video & Oral History

Film and sound

Someone telling their life their own way, in their own voice, recorded and edited so the people who come after can hear it for themselves.

Handmade Stationery

Letterpress and hand finishing

Cards and keepsakes for the moments that deserve more than a text: the announcement, the service, the thank-you.

Custom Bookbinding

Hand-bound volume

A whole life, gathered and bound by hand, with the weight a story like that deserves.

Memorial Websites

A place online

A lasting home online, where photos, stories and tributes keep arriving long after the service.

"Dearly beloved. We are gathered here today. To get through this thing called life."

Prince, Let's Go Crazy
Miranda Sita walking the Seattle waterfront, laughing, an armful of dahlias against her shoulder.

who I am →

A deck of 35 prompts for families

Start the conversation.

Work with me →

If a prompt brings up something difficult, support is available at 988 anytime.

The Journal

I write when there's something worth saying: essays about the work, local events, practical notes on the details. It's a good way to get to know me before you need me.

What this costs.

Obituate
Free to write, check with family and export newspaper-ready text. The optional permanent archive and document Kit is $149 once.
The Read-Through, $349
You write it, I check it. Every name, date and relationship against the record, the omissions nobody noticed, and the newspaper-ready text. Back to you on the paper's deadline, agreed on the call.
Obituary Editing & Ghostwriting
When you would rather not hold the pen at all. Flat rates, quoted in one phone call.
Retained Family Engagements
Everything above, scoped to what your family needs and quoted by private proposal. These are substantial engagements and I only take a few at a time.

I keep a few reduced-rate spots each year. If the rates are out of reach, ask anyway. If I can't make room, I'll point you to community resources that can help.

Bainbridge Death Support calls home the ancestral lands of the Suquamish People (suq̀wabš, the People of Clear Salt Water) and their Coast Salish relatives, who have tended these shores and waters since time immemorial, and tend them still. It's God's country. I'm so fortunate to be here.

If this place has given you something too, consider giving back through the Suquamish Foundation, which supports the Tribe's cultural revival, education, and community.

Call or text my monitored line at (206) 617‑1199 to leave a message or schedule a time to talk. Or book directly → Reserve 30 minutes

Not ready to connect yet? Read the Journal or join my newsletter and get to know my work quietly, from a distance. I don't update it often on purpose.

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